My mother Diane Heath and Tony Saiki





Let me be very clear here:


It is NOT my role to determine what relationships people have with each other.


People should have whatever relationships bring them joy.


HOWEVER,


Tony Saiki and his family are intimately involved with me and the MWAW and have been for many years.


My mother is not one of my advanced human friends and supporters. Her DNA was all with which I chose to be involved in coming to this earth to fulfill the role that I am fulfilling.


A few years back, my mother acted up in a negative way that greatly affected me and put others, and the work, in great jeopardy.


(Anytime you want me to talk about this in public, Mother, I will! No problem.)


Because of her actions, and mainly because Sheri had left me and the work, I privately asked Tony to embrace my mother, care for her, be her friend, and do what he could to keep her drama under control ... which meant that Tony's involvement with her would affect her free will to act and allow herself to be acted upon, according to HER desires and humanity type.


Tony did a good job of keeping my mother's drama from affecting me and the work.


Tony did it HIS way.


However, Tony took away the free will of my mother to be who she really is and act out, or be acted upon, according to her desire.


Because of Tony's involvement with her, my mother acts to please Tony and only Tony.


Tony has developed a friendship with my mother. I wish him the best with it; but it can no longer have ANY effect on me.


I have asked Tony to make choice—a continued relationship with my mother, or one being intimately involved in the MWAW and in my personal life.


Recently, I told Tony to make the choice.


I told Tony that, if he ever had anything else to do with my mother on a personal level again, he could no longer be associated with me and the work in the way that he has been.


Tony was supposed to tell my mother that he no longer wanted anything to do with her outside of how he treats any other person on this earth, IF Tony wanted to stay involved with me as he has been over the years.


Yes, Mother. It was my call.


I asked Tony to break it off with you COMPLETELY.


Tony appears to be uncomfortable admitting he would have never gotten close to my mother had I not asked that of him. And that's clearly Tony's prerogative to feel that he would have established and maintained a relationship with my mother, regardless of my asking him to do so.


HOWEVER, because of the way that Tony dealt with my mother, my mother has developed a toxic and unhealthy dependency on her relationship with him. This toxicity has the chance of GREATLY affecting me and the work with which I am involved.


Events have changed. Sheri is back and fulfilling a great role in her support of me and the work. I no longer need Tony involved in my mother's life.


My mother must be given the chance to live "in love with herself," or not.


Let me be clear ... PUBLICLY ... about what I expect of Tony Saiki in regards to my mother:


First, let me reiterate that Tony can do whatever the hell he wants to do.


What Tony does NOT realize is that my care of my mother causes my family great concern.


(My mother isn't even aware of what is going on behind her back; BUT I AM.)


IF TONY SAIKI HAS ANYTHING TO DO WITH MY MOTHER AGAIN, OUTSIDE OF SAYING HELLO AT ANY PRIVATE PARTY WHERE THE TWO OF THEM MIGHT FIND THEMSELVES ...


IF TONY SAIKI DOES NOT COMPLETELY CUT HIMSELF OFF FROM MY MOTHER ... except for the unplanned times when the two of them might be at a party or in public ...


I and the MWAW will end our relationship with Tony, and the rest of the Saikis, for good!


NOTHING ABOUT THE WAY MY MOTHER FEELS TOWARDS TONY SAIKI IS GOOD FOR ME OR THE MWAW ... ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!


I am doing this publicly to protect the MWAW and me from my messed-up family!


If I am apprised that Tony Saiki has not sat my mother down and told her that he no longer wants a relationship with her in ANY way, in ANY form, outside of seeing each other at a function to which they are both mutually invited ... as I repeated twice above ...


I will do what I have to do.


My mother needs to be allowed to be who she REALLY is, without Tony as a crutch or reason for why she is acting or being acted upon in the way that she is.


I regret that I had to do this publicly.


But, when it comes to the MWAW and my life, I am going to act how I know is the best for me.


(NOTE TO NEMELKA AND LEE FAMILIES: Any time, any day, if you feel my mother is being abused by me, or deceived, YOU COME AND GET HER AND TAKE CARE OF HER YOURSELVES. Yeah, you think I'm involved in a cult and that I am its leader. Why don't you idiots act and save your own mother, sister, aunt, and grandma from being involved with such a mean and controlling cult leader!?)